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Kevin Wong, Ph.D.

Pepperdine University
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Silent Strength: Reclaiming the Beauty of Receptive Bilingualism

December 16, 2024 Kevin Wong

To the quiet bilinguals of the world—those who understand a heritage language deep in their bones but might not speak it back fluently—your story is worth celebrating. Too often, society tells you that understanding isn’t enough; that without perfect fluency, you’re somehow less whole. But they couldn’t be more wrong. The ability to listen, to comprehend, to feel the weight of words passed down through generations, is not just a skill—it’s a bridge. A lifeline. A sacred connection.

You are proof that languages live in more than just spoken words; they live in our hearts, in the laughter of a family dinner, in the familiar rise and fall of an abeula’s lullaby. You carry your language in the way you read between the lines, in how you instinctively know the cultural weight of a phrase, in how you interpret love in a voice that speaks more than words. And this, this quiet strength, is a gift. It’s a tie to your ancestors, to the stories that came before you, and to the culture you hold within.

But let’s be honest—being a receptive bilingual isn’t always easy. The world can be unkind, reducing bilingualism to a competition, a rigid standard that silences those who don’t fit the mold. You may feel judged by others or even by yourself. You may feel like you’re standing on the edge of two worlds, belonging everywhere and nowhere all at once. It can be lonely to carry a language in your heart but not on your tongue.

And yet, every moment you hear, understand, and hold that language is an act of defiance against forgetting. Receptive bilingualism is not a lesser form of bilingualism—it’s a powerful declaration that heritage matters, that culture matters, that connection matters. So, to those who quietly listen, who piece together meaning and make connections across cultures, who hold their heritage with reverence even when the words catch in their throat—you are the keepers of something beautiful. You are enough. And the world is richer because of who you are with these languages within you.

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